Mockery is my thing

Yesterday, after reading all the good reviews (read Facebook statuses of people), I finally went to watch the much hyped movie 'Ranjhanaa'. Nowadays, I go to the movies just to find flaws in the movie and point them out in my blog. I didn't find any in this one, except the fact that I didn't get the point that if Akram (fictitious name, in the movie as well) was such a hot shot personality and aspiring to be the prime minister of the country, how come neither his parents nor any of his relatives except his sister, came to the wedding? And how come no one in Sonam's family suspect anything? But the movie is awesome. It shows that Sonam's character was just using Dhanush's character, justifying them as just friendly favors when she very well knew that he was doing all that only because he was in love with her. This is what most girls do. They would let that feeling propagate within the guy just to use them and then finally end up trashing them. Guys are no different. Even Dhanush was using the other girl when he very well knew that she loved him. A question on Quora recently asked "Have you ever been friends with a girl / guy in the hope that someday his / her mate would leave him / her and you would get a chance?". 

I answered "This phenomenon is quite common. I mean you continue the friendship in the hope that one day the other person will break up. And the other person encourages you for that. He/She will have those cozy talks with you for hours at night. And then they expect you to do stuff which generally just a friend won't  do. At the end of the day either they kick their boyfriend/girlfriend's ass and you have a happy ending or they kick your ass and continue with their relationship."

In the movie the star according to me was Dhanush's friend. His dialogues are really hilarious and his dialogue delivery is amazing.

Someone recently asked "What about the girl that creeps into your thoughts at least once or twice every day? Will you still call yourself a guy without a heart?" See, that hasn't ever happened with me. So I am heartless. If you are talking about yourself then there can be a couple of reasons behind it. It may be possible that you run into that girl time and again. In such a case, you are bound to have thoughts about her in your mind. But that doesn't necessarily mean that you have a heart because there is a difference between the heart and the mind. And if you didn't come across her in a while and you  still have thoughts about her then you have a heart. But the heart can generate hateful thoughts as well, it isn't always about love.

People have been praising me for my post '15 inches', a post in which I make fun of someone. But all my life, everywhere I have been praised for making fun of people, be it school or college. So I guess, mockery is my thing.

Coming down to the story of the day. Let's begin.

                  

                                                                                           Start of story

                                                                                            DISCLAIMER

All the characters in this story are fictitious. Any resemblance to any person, living or dead is purely coincidental.

My girlfriend & I were going through a rough patch. We were on the verge of a break up. One night, I got drunk and slept with a girl I met at a friend's party. Honestly, I don't even remember her name. It was just a one night thing. I can't recall anything. I cheated on my girlfriend ( at the back of my mind I guess I wanted to hurt her). Next day, I called up my girlfriend and broke up. There had been nothing very serious between us since the very beginning because we were just getting to know each other. She was a nice girl and I got along well with her but something was going wrong. We both were unable to figure it out what. I loved her. I think I still do. I called her up last week at 4 in the morning and shouted at her, for no reason whatsoever. I started blaming her. I was frustrated. She didn't say anything maybe because my call was unexpected and she was sleeping after a long day at work. She was polite throughout our conversation and disconnected. After our break up, I decided to focus on work. I know your blog says that ''happiness will reach us sooner or later and have faith blah blah" She was perfect for me. We all suffer ups and downs in life. I could have given one more try to work out this relationship. I didn't give her a chance to speak. Her parents are looking for a suitable match for her nowadays (I stalk her Facebook profile at times) and all this is killing me from inside.

                                                                                              The End

I have just one question for you, would you have forgiven your girlfriend if she had cheated on you, even if it was to teach you a lesson? It is just a rhetorical question, you don't need to answer that. Every man, no matter how feminist he acts, is a little chauvinist somewhere deep down. I mean a guy can get drunk, cheat and be forgiven but if a girl does so, she is a slut. And you can't blame everything on getting drunk. You don't get drunk and kill a stranger on the street. You just do things which are deep down within you somewhere. And you think you love her, you should feel that you love her. I won't say that you would get the girl back just to raise your hopes. But just don't try 'to hurt' someone else in this way ever again, you would just end up hurting yourself.

You can share some incident with me. Mail me at sid1391990@gmail.com. You can even leave it anonymously in the comments section of the survey.

Later
Sidhant
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