Proud to be a woman

There is just one woman in the entire world from whom I received selfless love. That is my mother. And she has loved me without fail all throughout my life. Today is her birthday and I wish her all the happiness in the world. She is the person who matters the most to me in the entire world. She has been making sacrifices for me all her life. It is high time that I pay back some.
I actually respect women a lot. The way they take care of children, no man can. It may seem through my writings that I portray myself to be a womanizer and I objectify women. But in reality, I don't have any intention of objectifying women. I try to objectify love because love causes a lot of heartbreaks and distress both among men and women and my sole motive is to prevent that.
Someone sent me a friend request on Facebook today. I thought it was someone who wanted to share some story with me for my blog. In a few minutes I got a message saying "you are gorgeous". It wasn't a girl, it was a gay guy. I immediately deleted him from my account. So this the kind of fame I am getting from this blog.
The story I will narrate now is a confession of a girl on the confessions page of a girls college. Mostly confessions pages are filled with bullshit where guys posing as girls make sexual confessions. I don't get it. By writing such stuff they are just making other guys horny. I don't know what fun they get in that. I actually went to the confessions page for my blog publicity. I write some funny comment on some lame ass confessions and then leave the link of my blog at the end.
So this not a story, this is just the confession of a girl.

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I know we are girls, so what?
We are not meek, submissive people.
We can speak out loud too.
There are a few things to say here..
First is that, i don't care a damn who hits on me or who doesn't, i won't take that nonsense.
It's all a fake and always has been.
i like to dress, walk, eat, sleep, and do whatever i want with dignity and pride.
i pride myself for being a girl.
And I for sure do not need any protection from the government..
I can do it all on my own thank you very much!
And second of all, to all those girls out there who keep bitching about things, grow up!
There is more to life than waiting to see who gossiped about you, or who sucks up to the teachers, or who is making out with who, so you can talk about her behind her back.
We are in college now, and turned into dignified ladies. It's high time we act it out.!!
And as far as boyfriends and shit like that goes, it is supposed to be a beautiful thing, but seems like you all do it for the fun of it!!
It saddens me to the core..
There is a whole life in front of you to engage with all of that stuff people. Think about your careers first. What will you do in life huh??
Need to be monitarily independent too right??
Common!! Think about something better for a change, and lets not blame guys for everything! They too are humans and deserve some peace and happiness.
Let us live our lives and they theirs, harmony is something forgotten these days and i want to remind you all that what happens in the news these days is partly our fault and partly theirs.
Take the necessary precautions and you will be safe.
You are not a sex toy unless you make it seem like you are. It is true that rapes happening are not the fault of a girl but there are some precautions you can take

1. Dont dress provocatively.
But
Don't dress conservatively, some men might find that attractive. 
2. Don't go out alone.
But
Don't go out with a female friend. Some men like numbers.
But
Don't go out with a male friend. He could rape you too.
But
Don't go out with an elder relative or neighbor either... Well they've been known to have raped as well.
But 
That doesn't mean you stay at home. What if someone rapes you while youre alone at home?
3. Don't look like a child. There are people who find children attractive.
But
Don't look old either. Some people 'dig' that.
Oh and don't look young! Dear god don't you know most people find that hot? 
4. In case you face rape. In the name of Asha ram bapuji... Call that person "brother" preach to him... He 'might' just 'might' have mercy on you.


Mark my words, and lets change this world for the better. 

A concerned girl student.


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I just copy pasted the whole confession from a confessions page. But I guess it made more sense than most of my stories which don't convey any meaning.



You can share some incident with me. Mail me at sid1391990@gmail.com. You can even leave it anonymously in the comments section of the survey.

Later

Sidhant
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