She is pretty
For a change, I was planning to watch the much hyped India vs Pakistan cricket match today. I guess millions of fans must be waiting to watch the match. But the rain gods had other plans. The match got watched away. That is why I am back here because 'I have nothing else to do'.
An actress Jiah Khan has a lot of photos in the media after she is dead. If she would have got this much publicity when she was alive, she wouldn't have to reach the stage in her life, to commit a suicide. It is water under the bridge, let it go and rest her soul rest in peace.
Recently I read a news. It reasoned out as to why Kareena was holding Saif's hand so tightly at a public event held a couple of days back. I mean do these people in the media have a machine which measures the intensity of the grip of the hand of one person around the other? And then parents expect their children to watch news to gain more knowledge about the world. What knowledge will they gain? How to hold the arm of their loved one.
Whoever dropped in the latest story did a terrible job. I mean if you guys want me to write about your life, the least you can do is leave a little more detail. If you are talking about your relationship or past relationship, please be a little more descriptive about the time spent in the relationship, about the girl and then some particular incident in the relationship which you will always remember and cherish. Saying that the girl is very pretty, is a very broad term. Every girl is pretty, And don't just say that we broke up because we had trust issues. Be a little more specific.
But still I will give narrating it a try.
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DISCLAIMER
All the characters in this story are fictitious. Any resemblance to any person, living or dead is purely coincidental.
Everything was perfect. Ambika (fictitious name) was the love of my life. We were compatible in every way and got along really well. I was very serious for her. I had even told my family about her.
But she had a problem with me talking to other girls. We often had fights over it as I felt that she should trust me. Our differences grew and one day I yelled at her and hung up. It has been almost a year and we haven't talked ever since.
I had thought that I would get rebound love and someone much better, within no time. I met a number of girls after that but no one matched up to her level in any way. I miss her a lot. I have bookmarked her Facebook profile on my phone and keep on checking out her pictures all day long. A girl looks more attractive when you know you can't get her. I guess that is human nature.
She is single and I want to give the relationship another chance. I don't know whether I should make the first move and apologize. I am really ashamed of my behavior towards her but I still feel for her. And I don't know what to do.
The End
You came to the wrong person for relationship advice. If you wanted advice while breaking up with someone then I am your guy but relationships are not exactly my cup of tea.
I will tell you one thing though. I am pretty sure about that though that you should try to get her back and make the first move. Whatever it is, your shame, your ego, just keep it aside and go talk to her. If the story I have written conveys your feelings somehow, ask her to read it.
The next time if someone needs some advice then drop in a mail to me so that I can reply you back in person. If you don't want to disclose your identity, you can make a fake account. It takes less than five minutes (I have more than ten such accounts).
You can share some incident with me. Mail me at sid1391990@gmail.com. You can even leave it anonymously in the comments section of the survey.
The match is back on and India is on the verge of winning so
Later
Sidhant
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An actress Jiah Khan has a lot of photos in the media after she is dead. If she would have got this much publicity when she was alive, she wouldn't have to reach the stage in her life, to commit a suicide. It is water under the bridge, let it go and rest her soul rest in peace.
Recently I read a news. It reasoned out as to why Kareena was holding Saif's hand so tightly at a public event held a couple of days back. I mean do these people in the media have a machine which measures the intensity of the grip of the hand of one person around the other? And then parents expect their children to watch news to gain more knowledge about the world. What knowledge will they gain? How to hold the arm of their loved one.
Whoever dropped in the latest story did a terrible job. I mean if you guys want me to write about your life, the least you can do is leave a little more detail. If you are talking about your relationship or past relationship, please be a little more descriptive about the time spent in the relationship, about the girl and then some particular incident in the relationship which you will always remember and cherish. Saying that the girl is very pretty, is a very broad term. Every girl is pretty, And don't just say that we broke up because we had trust issues. Be a little more specific.
But still I will give narrating it a try.
Start of story
DISCLAIMER
All the characters in this story are fictitious. Any resemblance to any person, living or dead is purely coincidental.
Everything was perfect. Ambika (fictitious name) was the love of my life. We were compatible in every way and got along really well. I was very serious for her. I had even told my family about her.
But she had a problem with me talking to other girls. We often had fights over it as I felt that she should trust me. Our differences grew and one day I yelled at her and hung up. It has been almost a year and we haven't talked ever since.
I had thought that I would get rebound love and someone much better, within no time. I met a number of girls after that but no one matched up to her level in any way. I miss her a lot. I have bookmarked her Facebook profile on my phone and keep on checking out her pictures all day long. A girl looks more attractive when you know you can't get her. I guess that is human nature.
She is single and I want to give the relationship another chance. I don't know whether I should make the first move and apologize. I am really ashamed of my behavior towards her but I still feel for her. And I don't know what to do.
The End
You came to the wrong person for relationship advice. If you wanted advice while breaking up with someone then I am your guy but relationships are not exactly my cup of tea.
I will tell you one thing though. I am pretty sure about that though that you should try to get her back and make the first move. Whatever it is, your shame, your ego, just keep it aside and go talk to her. If the story I have written conveys your feelings somehow, ask her to read it.
The next time if someone needs some advice then drop in a mail to me so that I can reply you back in person. If you don't want to disclose your identity, you can make a fake account. It takes less than five minutes (I have more than ten such accounts).
You can share some incident with me. Mail me at sid1391990@gmail.com. You can even leave it anonymously in the comments section of the survey.
Later
Sidhant
For blog betterment, those of you who haven't, please fill the 2 min anonymous survey at http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/FVDKBY3
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